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发表于 2011-8-11 09:50
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I corrected some parts of my point of view...
bpdulog Wrote:
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> I didn't mean to frame my comment on blaming a
> lack of connections. What I meant is that one
> should try to network as much as they can and
> develop their own connections. Being well
> connected will help you that much in the long run.
I do agree but don't fall into the following philosophy: "Networking at all cost" because you may pay it a high price. I mean you have to establish smart connections and not be seen as "the guy looking for a job and nothing else". Whatsmore, you don't want to be exploited by your connections abusively.
It seems it is sometimes difficult to people to understand that a relationship has to be bilateral, meaning you can't always ask and never offer. I sometimes have old classmates finding my phonenumber on social networks, then calling me to take a drink and so on. When meeting, the first or (if he is a bit smarter) the second question is "Do you think i can find a job in your company?" If you are as nice as me, you gonna say that you 'll try to do your best to see if anybody is interested around you. So, you help him. Several months/years later, you call him back because that time he got a nice position and may help you to improve yours. But that time, he tells you that he is unable to do something for you, so sorry for you ..
I am pretty sure this situation sounds very familiar to everyone. The result is that now everybody behave the same while having completly forgotten the true definition of helping each other, replacing it with "I am just selfish and i will exploit weak or nice people".
=> Welcome in France, the country where even with MBA, CFA, FRM, ... you still are jobless surrounded by selfish people, the country where people interested in how things works and express some curiosity are strange and should be eradicated. |
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