Houjichasan

Numi agreed with you, but he also gave better and more actionable advice about what to work on if the OP really wants to go this route.  That’s the reason you feel persecuted.  You seem to enjoy delivering the bitter pill.  Numi tries to soothe it, provide context, and make it go down easier, which is much more appreciated.
But don’t worry, there are people who are much worse on that score.  I don’t sense that there’s a true posse that’s out to get you.