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发表于 2011-8-11 09:18
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bpdulog Wrote:
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> I didn't mean to frame my comment on blaming a
> lack of connections. What I meant is that one
> should try to network as much as they can and
> develop their own connections. Being well
> connected will help you that much in the long run.
I do agree but don't fall into the followibng philosophy: "Networking at all cost". I mean you have to establish smart connections and not be seen as "the guy looking for a job and nothing else"
It seems it is sometimes difficult for people to understand that a relationship is bilateral, meaning you can't always ask and never offer. I already had old classmates that found my phone number on Linkedin, then call me to take a drink and talk about the past. When then time to meet has come, the second question is "Do you think i can find a job in your company?" If you are as nice as me, you say that you will try to do your best to see if anybody around you is interested and you help him. Several years later, you call him back because that time he got a nice position and may help you but he tells you he is unable to do something for you, so sorry about that..
This situation is very familiar to me as and happened maybe two or three times. The result is that now everybody behave the same while having completly forgotten the true definition of helping each other, replacing it with "I am just selfish".
=> Welcome in France, the country where even with MBA, CFA, FRM, ... you still are jobless surrounded by selfish people, the country where people interested in how things works and express some curiosity are strange and should be eradicated.
Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at Friday, August 5, 2011 at 08:15AM by Fridge. |
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