stockjaguar

I would ask her about the position you're applying for (a little ways in), what she thinks about the role/department, and let her know you're going to apply for it. At that point shell either offer for you to list her on the app, or won't.

From there, just be eager to learn, demonstrate some understanding of her field/firm, and polite. Try and pay for the coffee.

Good luck.

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